Interracial Dating Rant: “I Only Date Koreans/I Only Date White Girls!”

On the subject of AMXF relationships (Asian Males/Non-Asian Females), I have little to complain about. Of course, things could be SO much better, but we’re making good progress. However, I am not the type to simply accept average. I want things to be perfect for us! It must be better! And in order to do so, I need to call out the bullshit of some of you women out there, and yes, even some of my Asian brothers.

So here are my current thoughts on our current situation.

Speaking of Situations: Check out this side by side shot of Mike "The situation" vs the Asian version, Peter Le (or as some are calling him "the SituASIAN")


Non-Asian Girls Who Only Date Korean/Japanese Men

Things are lookin pretty darn good for Koreans. Aside from the fact that North Korea is being a total d-bag at the moment, in terms of global appeal, Koreans are doing very well for themselves. Not only that, but women all over the world want to snag a Korean boyfriend! Jeebus Christ, even THIS girl wants a Korean man!

And hey, I’m all for it. I will ride this Korean wave and I will continue to support my brothers because to me, they aren’t just Koreans, they’re Asian. But despite their mass appeal growing faster than Adam Richmond’s belly, I have to point out that their influence is a double edged sword.

One one hand, Korean men are doing wonderful things for Korean men. But on the flip side, a ton of women are now saying “OMG I LOVE Korean guys! ZOMFG SOOO HAWT! Taeyang can have like, 80 of my babies! I wantΒ  to find myself a Korean boyfriend, and ONLY Korean!” So while these girls are open to dating Asian guys, some of them have their preferences set on “Korean only” or “Japanese only.”

Now hey, for some of you light skinned Asian dudes who can pull off the Korean look, more power to you. But what about us Asian guys that look nothing like a Korean? I’m proud that you sexy black chicks and sassy Latinas are into Korean guys, but you’re missing the point! The purpose of being open minded is to be OPEN, not racially picky.

" I want Korean men today, or Korean men?"

Okay, I know what some of you might be thinking: “Well hey! That’s just who I’m attracted to. Why are you judging me? I should be able to like who I want!” True. You’re absolutely correct. But do you know what it feels like to be in our situation? No? Let me show you.



Asian Guys Who Only Date White Girls

Thank you Saci for sending me this awesome picture πŸ™‚

The moment an Asian guy says “I want to date outside of my race” is a magical and WONDERFUL event that should be celebrated with lots of champagne, crazy Asian techno music, and lots and lots of Karaoke. 90% of the time, an Asian guy that is interested in Interracial Dating will almost always go for White girls. I mean shit, I did the same exact thing! So what exactly am I complaining about?

What I’m criticizing are the instances when Asian guys date ONLY White girls. Asian guys who are so passionate about “Give Asian guys a chance!” yet in the same breath, they state that they only date White chicks. My Asian brother, what’s up with that?! You make absolutely no sense!

It pains me to see so many gorgeous, intelligent, and passionate Black women who are so interested in dating Asian men; Black women are willing to post tons of videos on Youtube to show their support for us, and absolutely zero Asian guys willing to return the favor. Yes, there are a fair number of Asian guys who do, but compared to Asian guys who go apeshit over White girls? It’s appalling.

My Asian brother, listen to me: outside of Marshmallow land, there is a land of CHOCOLATE! A land where the rivers are flowing with dark, light, and even spicy (for all you Caribbean ladies) flavored chocolate. There are black girls who are thick, skinny, tall, short, and everything in between.

I'll take one of each πŸ˜€

Next door, there is also a land of Spicy food! A land where the Latinas roam free, spreading their sexyness around the world. And guess what?! They want you! And guess what?! YOU WANT THEM!

There is so much more to Interracial Dating than White girls. I’m not trying to diss White women because honestly, I love you all (my first “love” was a blondie). But just know that there is a whole world of Women out there and so many of them are willing to accept you. So many of them are open minded and have taken the time to understand our complex Asian culture, and have stated that they’re interested. So please, return the favor. Give them a try, take them out, marry them, and have 80 of their babies.

Asian Babies: Ladies, you KNOW you want one πŸ˜‰

What Does This All Mean?

There’s more to life than Kimchi, Sushi, and Marshmallows. And also, don’t underestimate the power of a Filipino guy because truthfully… we’re Berry Priendly πŸ˜‰

My Love Life has been put on hold (for now)

Well hello to you too πŸ™‚

As you can see, due to the apparent lack of any new posts on this blog, it’s easy to conclude that yea, my love life is pretty much in the shitter. Well okay, it’s not that bad. Let’s just say that my love life is on pause. It’s currently loading, in the making, and to be continued. But fear not! I have good reasons! EXCELLENT REASONS, in fact.

Right now, I am at the cusp of transferring from my current community college in suburbia, to a glorious University in the city (San Francisco, California to be exact). I mean think about it! San Francisco was considered one of the BEST cities to live in if you’re an Asian guy. With rich culture, open minded women, and more women, it’s practically the Costco of the dating world!

Who’s down for an Asian guy?! “ME! ME! PICK ME!”

As many of you may or may not know, I also run a fashion blog along with this blog. Basically, I drive over to San Francisco, walk up to random people on the street who I think are stylish, and I photograph them. Although I could get into a whole conversation about fashion and style, I’ll say this: San Francisco is awesome for all you interracial relationship fanatics.

Whenever I’m out and about, I like to play a game called “How many Asian male/Non-Asian female couples can you spot?” In San Jose (my current location), and if I’m super duper lucky, I’ll score around a 4 or 5, but usually I’m between 1 or 2. Sad, eh?Β  HOWEVER! In San Francisco, I’ll rack up numbers like 15 or 20! At one point, I saw an Asian guy with a cute blonde girl and just across the street, I saw another one! Can you say “JACKPOT?”

Why YES beautiful black girl, I WILL show you where the nearest ATM is! Also, allow me to take you out on 1...or 9 dates πŸ™‚

Knowing that the grass is truly greener on the other side, I’ve sorta put my love life on hold. It’s kinda like those times when you know you’re going to eat at a really nice restaurant for dinner, so instead of snacking on junk food before, you just hold out so you can pig out during dinner. You starve yourself so once you get your dinner plate, BAM! You go crazy. You tear it up, and wreak havoc on that poor steak. And like that nice innocent steak dinner, I too will go crazy in San Francisco.

Things are really looking up for Asian guys these days. With Asian artists topping the Billboard Charts (Far East Movement), topping the Youtube charts (NigaHiga), and just plain T.O.P, our beautifully angled eyes are seeing a world of possibilities. Asians have found a crack in the system and are marching all 5 billion of us into that door. We’re establishing ourselves without the help of Hollywood, breaking through to the music industry, and improving our self image one haircut at a time.

So what’s in store for interracial dating? Well…I think this pretty much sums up our progress as of now πŸ™‚

Masi Oka?! THAT'S YOUR GIRLFRIEND?!?!?! HOORAY FOR YOU! *confeti, balloons, streamers, parading animals, naked girls dancing*