On the subject of AMXF relationships (Asian Males/Non-Asian Females), I have little to complain about. Of course, things could be SO much better, but we’re making good progress. However, I am not the type to simply accept average. I want things to be perfect for us! It must be better! And in order to do so, I need to call out the bullshit of some of you women out there, and yes, even some of my Asian brothers.
So here are my current thoughts on our current situation.
Non-Asian Girls Who Only Date Korean/Japanese Men
Things are lookin pretty darn good for Koreans. Aside from the fact that North Korea is being a total d-bag at the moment, in terms of global appeal, Koreans are doing very well for themselves. Not only that, but women all over the world want to snag a Korean boyfriend! Jeebus Christ, even THIS girl wants a Korean man!
And hey, I’m all for it. I will ride this Korean wave and I will continue to support my brothers because to me, they aren’t just Koreans, they’re Asian. But despite their mass appeal growing faster than Adam Richmond’s belly, I have to point out that their influence is a double edged sword.
One one hand, Korean men are doing wonderful things for Korean men. But on the flip side, a ton of women are now saying “OMG I LOVE Korean guys! ZOMFG SOOO HAWT! Taeyang can have like, 80 of my babies! I want to find myself a Korean boyfriend, and ONLY Korean!” So while these girls are open to dating Asian guys, some of them have their preferences set on “Korean only” or “Japanese only.”
Now hey, for some of you light skinned Asian dudes who can pull off the Korean look, more power to you. But what about us Asian guys that look nothing like a Korean? I’m proud that you sexy black chicks and sassy Latinas are into Korean guys, but you’re missing the point! The purpose of being open minded is to be OPEN, not racially picky.
Okay, I know what some of you might be thinking: “Well hey! That’s just who I’m attracted to. Why are you judging me? I should be able to like who I want!” True. You’re absolutely correct. But do you know what it feels like to be in our situation? No? Let me show you.
Asian Guys Who Only Date White Girls
The moment an Asian guy says “I want to date outside of my race” is a magical and WONDERFUL event that should be celebrated with lots of champagne, crazy Asian techno music, and lots and lots of Karaoke. 90% of the time, an Asian guy that is interested in Interracial Dating will almost always go for White girls. I mean shit, I did the same exact thing! So what exactly am I complaining about?
What I’m criticizing are the instances when Asian guys date ONLY White girls. Asian guys who are so passionate about “Give Asian guys a chance!” yet in the same breath, they state that they only date White chicks. My Asian brother, what’s up with that?! You make absolutely no sense!
It pains me to see so many gorgeous, intelligent, and passionate Black women who are so interested in dating Asian men; Black women are willing to post tons of videos on Youtube to show their support for us, and absolutely zero Asian guys willing to return the favor. Yes, there are a fair number of Asian guys who do, but compared to Asian guys who go apeshit over White girls? It’s appalling.
My Asian brother, listen to me: outside of Marshmallow land, there is a land of CHOCOLATE! A land where the rivers are flowing with dark, light, and even spicy (for all you Caribbean ladies) flavored chocolate. There are black girls who are thick, skinny, tall, short, and everything in between.
Next door, there is also a land of Spicy food! A land where the Latinas roam free, spreading their sexyness around the world. And guess what?! They want you! And guess what?! YOU WANT THEM!
There is so much more to Interracial Dating than White girls. I’m not trying to diss White women because honestly, I love you all (my first “love” was a blondie). But just know that there is a whole world of Women out there and so many of them are willing to accept you. So many of them are open minded and have taken the time to understand our complex Asian culture, and have stated that they’re interested. So please, return the favor. Give them a try, take them out, marry them, and have 80 of their babies.
What Does This All Mean?
There’s more to life than Kimchi, Sushi, and Marshmallows. And also, don’t underestimate the power of a Filipino guy because truthfully… we’re Berry Priendly ;)